DISCOVER THE 99/1 PRINCIPLE FOR DO GOOD,BE GOOD POST #2

What is this principle? 1% of life is made up of what happens to you.99% of life is decided by how you react/respond to it.What does this mean? We really have no control over 1% of what happens to us.we cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our wholes schedule off.A diver may cut us off in traffic.we have no control over this 1%. The other 99% is different.YOU determine the other 99%. How? By your reaction You cannot control a red light, but you control your reaction to it.

Let’s use an example

You are eating breakfast with your family.Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt.you have no control over what just a happened. What happens next will be determined by how you  react. You curse,you harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over. She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table.

A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus. Your spouse must leave immediately for work. You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 60 km an hour in a 40 kmph speed limit. After a 15-minute delay and throwing Rs. 500/-traffic fine away, you arrive at school.Your daughter runs inyo the building without saying goodbye.  After arriving at the office 20minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase your day has started terrible.

As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home.When you arrive home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and daughter. Why? Because of how you reacted in the morning. Why did you have a bad day?A)Did the coffee cause it? B)Did your daughter cause it? C)Did the policeman cause it? D)Did you cause it? I think the rite ans is “D”

MORAL: You really do not have any control over what happens to you. But you have complete control on how you respond to it………choose your response and celebrate life!!!!!